Record my thought

If you are right, try to win people gently and tactfully to your way of thinking. If you are wrong, and that would be surprisingly often if you are honest, try to admit mistakes quickly and with enthusiasm. With this technique, often produce astonishing results, believe it or not, from trying defending yourself.

Do not start an argument if you can. Why? Because even you lose when you lose the argument, you lose when you win the argument. People didn't tell the story to ask for your opinion. Another principle, if situation goes sour, try to say"I might be wrong, lets examine the facts". Nobody in this universe would object you when you admit yourself is wrong. Today I have to think a lot. Nitin went to Chevron interview for second time, and he passed. He will be leaving us soon. I am thinking a lot to assess why I can't be like him? I will be extremely busy in next few months then. What is the future of this department? Seems like going no where.